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How to love

One Christian missionary was asked to say the teaching of Jesus christ in a single sentence.He said-"Love your neighbor as yourself."But people don't love themselves,then how will they love their neighbor?They will not love their neighbor at all.Actually we don't know what love is.Love is such a great thing,that you can experience but can't define what it is.Like when a dumb person eats sweet,he can experience the sweetness but would not be able to say what sweetness is.Even we can't define what sweetness is.Can we?So we can't define Love.We don't even experience the real love.If the love is unconditional,then only it is real love.That love is rare.People,who are enlightened,who are calm inside,who have compassion for all the creature,they only know that love.You can also have the glimpses of that love.A single glimpse of that love will change you.You will not be the same again.To have the glimpses of love you will have to be calminside.Be meditative.In meditation you can feel the true love.When you feel that love,then you will be able to love yourself.When you love yourself then the fragrance of love come out of you.Whoever will come in your contact will have a different kind of pleasure.This is the way to love.Your love will be unselfish.

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