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How to get Love


Everybody wants to get love.He/she wants others to love him/her.But he/she doesn't love other.Sometimes it does appear that one loves some one,but actually you love somebody to get something and if the person you love doesn't give you the thing you want ,you start hating that person.So is this love?It's just an investment and you want something in return.It's a pure business and you call it love?Love is unconditional.It does not need anything in return.But this is also true that if you love someone truly,that person is bound to return love.But you don't expect that,because your expectation just creates a hindrance. If you want to be loved,then you must love others.because you get what you give.As much you give so much you receive .That is the law of nature and you can't change it because you are the part of nature.
          In life you get what you attract.If you want to get love,then you should attract love.Now the question is how to attract love?To attract love you should be always positive in thinking that you deserve love by others.This is only possible,when you also give love to anybody and everybody.Not only the human beings,but even any creature which comes in your contact should be loved by you.You should be in such a state that any creature which comes in your contact should feel at ease with your very presence.For this you should also be at ease with any creature.You will be in a state of loveliness.Then you won't have to do any effort to get love.You will get the love automatically.
                      Most of the creatures know the art to get love.Generally they don't do any effort to get love.They just get ready to get love.They prepare themselves.In preparing themselves they don't  do any extra effort.The existence does everything for them.They just let go,whatever happens.Imagine if we human beings also know this art of being in the state of let go.We try to get something and doing so only create some obstruction in getting those things.And then we try to get over those obstructions.
                     So the simple way to get what you want is to make yourself capable of getting those things.If you are elligible the existence will give you everything you dese
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